My Cat knows me so well
by Little S
(Southampton England)
I only discovered this week that there are High Sensation Seekers, who seek out novel sensations.
I have a nervous cat, who would be very anxious and skit away from me, yet he would sit and relax with my partner.
I decided to give the cat some healing, just placing my hand on his head and sent him some love.
Well, he was a different cat after that, however, sometimes he comes and sits with me and can't seem to get enough, other times, he runs away from me in fear.
I now realise that it is all to do with my state of excitement, when I am over stimulated my energy must be too strong for him. This has really helped me to understand how to control the stimulation to manageable levels. It stops me from feeling exhausted.
My cat shows me what level of excitement I am in and I can calm down, which is what I need. It also means he gets a lot of calm loving!