My Dog Spike

by Lynell Robertson
(Everett Washington)

I have recently discovered that I am a highly sensitive person, after years of therapy and a successful healing as a result of that therapy.

I have a wonderful dog named Spike, who is also highly sensitive, and has a real sense of compassion. We take care of each other, and have an interdependency that few humans could share. I have been feeling shaky due to a relationship that was based on sensitivity but sadly failed to deliver. Spike is right there, head on paws, offering himself for scratches, and mandatory belly rubs (he benefits there! an I feel good you feel good deal) quiet listening and warmth. Someone carelessly and callously described him as "controlling and conditional" and said his cat was so great because cats are "unconditional" and you know I nearly ran over that little kitty because it was running around loose in our neighborhood headed straight across the path of my car. I also saw that little cat out in nineteen degree weather last winter. But the cat is supposed to be a "tough survivor" as per its owner. Well sure. Unconditional, cold and in danger.

I believe in the mutuality of pets and people and that can never be described as controlling or conditional. Our pets do depend on us for what we give to them, whether it is a warm hand or fresh water or a safe place to lay down and sleep. And in return, we are given companionship, understanding and unconditional love. They say that the rescue dogs who assisted during the 911 tragedy, became depressed when they were unable to recover survivors. I believe this is true. Perhaps animals possess a depth of understanding that is rooted in the ancient times. There is a sensitivity about my dog, that is quite human, he knows things and likes to stay near, to greet and to comfort, to thank when he receives his morning food, and to provide a guardianship while I am sleeping. In turn, there are things I must do, protect him, clean up after him and see to his small needs as well as my own. But I would not trade his twelve pounds of loyalty for anything. He gives of himself, and has taught me to give.