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by rosie
(parma,ohio,usa)

I found out after having difficulty with work issues at 2 different places that hsp's probably should not work in the medical field. I never had trouble coping with job stress until I became a nurse. Of course,after reading Elaine Aaron's book this came to awareness.But she also stated in her newsletter that we tend to become more sensitive as we age, so it was probably a combination of both. I also was sensitive as a child also,being told to act like an extrovert, as if that was the best way to be. My parents didn't really seek out personality and temperament issues when raising us, and also seemed to have difficulties accepting themselves and tried to conform to the extrovert lifestyle. The result,alcoholism in my father and a bewildered mother. The good thing about going through all of this in my life is finally self awareness and being a more understanding parent and wife. My sons and husband also have sensitive traits and I hope I help them see the value.

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Aug 22, 2010
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hsp and nursing
by: rosi

I have posted here before and wanted to comment on the last post in August. I know there are a lot of more peaceful nursing jobs, like I found in the school, although there were hectic days there as well, but the regular hours really helped. And the noise of the constant monitors,phones, was greatly reduced. The secretaries in the office had more noise overexposure due to the now mandated doorbells to enter a school,security issues and ringing phones and copy machine noise and fumes. I was fortunate to be an an office down the hall where it was quieter, and had a window opening up to a lovely old courtyard that was nicely landscaped. So just seing that bit of nature helped.Home care nursing can be nice also, but you have to watch as some agencies have patients more complex that require 24/7 care so that alone might drain your energy.Be careful of taking care of others too much and not allowing down time for yourself. Elaine Aaron's book suggests at least one hour a day of outside exercise,10 to twelve hours of sleep a night with a rest break during the day.We seem to need more quiet downtime than others,but it can be done if you set boundaries in your life regarding your needs.And some situations are more flexible. I know some people I used to work with in the hospital went to work for hospice,seeing the more natural order of things more beneficial than what hospitals do toward the end of life. I found the schoool a more cheery environment,which for me was necessary after 12 years in oncology nursing. Good luck.

Aug 20, 2010
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by: Emma

hi i definately can see why you feel overwhelmed as a nurse. i am a student nurse and the number of days i have ended up crying over staff saying i looked "uninterested" and too "quiet" for the job. it is a job which involves a lot of communication however i believe there are some environments where nurses can strive (ie community nursing? which is visiting patients in their homes) is rewarding where i can be more independent.

Jun 23, 2010
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Me, too
by: Keli

I have worked in Public Safety (primarily emergency medical)for the last 12 years. Before that were a number of customer service jobs in High School & College...
I feel stuck! I never feel good after leaving work. Generally speaking, I've lost trust and hope in humanity b/c all I see, hear, and do is deal with the negative side of Life. And this job, as I age, drains me more and more.
I recently realized that I am HSP. My mom was too! But she passed away over 11 years ago and I have no one to lean on. I am SO grateful to have found this website!!!
Anyway, I'm trying to find the door into a more 'comfortable' way of Life. With struggle and confusion, I read more and more on these subjects. With determination & some patience...I will get out of this job and find my TRUE nature!

Nov 17, 2009
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nurse
by: rosie

I can't say that your experience would be the same,but after reading the highly sensitive person by elaine aaron,I saw the advice that medical field work is probably too intense for an hsp.I did work as a nurse for 12 years in a fast paced inner city hospital,so maybe it was the type of medical environment.So I switched to a school with better hours for a mother (No night shift,no weekends)as a school nurse and loved it.Then at age 50 I badly sprained my anke and had to deal with the fact I couldn't really sprint anymore when reponding to playground injuries.So age was probably a factor as well.Good luck.

Nov 15, 2009
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nice to hear your experience
by: Anonymous

hmm, I am thinking about becoming a podiatrist of physiotherapist and was very much like you when younger, and indeed how you are now.

Sounds like your experience would suggest it wouldn't be the best for me?

Andy

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